What to Wear to a Fall Wedding: Inspiration for Different Events

Fall is here, and so is wedding season! I’m preparing for two upcoming weddings—one in Colorado and another in Kansas City. My husband is a groomsman in Colorado, and I’m excited to attend both, though finding the right outfit, especially while pregnant, has been a bit of a challenge.

Fall weddings are fun because you can embrace cozy textures, rich colors, and elegant layers. However, with multiple events for each wedding, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the different dress codes. Let’s dive into wedding attire etiquette, fall trends, and some maternity formal wear struggles I’ve experienced along the way.

Breaking Down the Dress Codes: Cocktail, Black Tie Preferred, and Dressy Casual

When attending a wedding, it’s important to understand each dress code so you can feel confident and dressed appropriately. The Colorado wedding has several events, each with its own dress code. Here’s what’s on the schedule:

Cocktail Attire (Rehearsal Dinner): This is the perfect chance to wear something chic and elegant, but not overly formal. Think mid-length dresses, jumpsuits, or dressy separates. You want to look polished without going overboard.

Black Tie Preferred (Wedding): This one has been tricky for me since maternity formal wear is harder to find. A floor-length dress is usually expected, but it doesn’t have to be a ballgown or tuxedo. A classic gown or sleek, tailored dress works. I need to match my husband’s style since he’ll be in a tux—black is always a safe choice!

Dressy Casual (Sendoff Breakfast): For a daytime event like this, it’s all about looking simple yet put together. A cute midi dress, a stylish blouse with tailored pants, or even a polished jumpsuit works well.

Finding Stylish Maternity Formal Wear (It’s Harder Than You Think!)

I’ll be honest—finding great maternity formal wear hasn’t been easy. The options are limited, and it’s hard to find something that feels both comfortable and on-trend. For the Colorado wedding, I’ve been on the hunt for a maternity-friendly gown that fits the black-tie dress code without sacrificing comfort or style.

Luckily, fall trends are offering some gorgeous options for both maternity and non-maternity wear. Think luxurious fabrics like velvet and satin, and rich, deep colors like burgundy, forest green, and classic navy. These textures and hues are not only perfect for the season but can also be flattering on a growing bump.

If you’re like me and struggling to find the right outfit, I’ve found a few brands and pieces that work well for maternity formal wear and that you can easily dress up or down depending on the occasion. I’ll link some of my favorites below to help you out!

Fall Wedding Trends to Watch

Whether you’re expecting or not, here are a few fall trends I’m loving:

• Moody Florals: Darker, romantic florals are huge this season, especially in mid-length or floor-length dresses.
• Velvet Everything: Velvet is perfect for cooler weather and adds a luxurious touch to any outfit.
• Rich Jewel Tones: Colors like emerald, sapphire, and ruby are stunning and flattering. I’m considering a deep emerald gown for the Colorado wedding.
• Elegant Jumpsuits: A tailored jumpsuit can be a great option for cocktail or dressy casual events. It’s chic and comfortable.

Outfit Links and Inspiration

While shopping for these weddings, I’ve found some great pieces, including maternity-friendly options. Whether you’re headed to a black-tie affair or a casual event, these picks are perfect for fall weddings:

Twist Front Midi Dress | Bodycon Dress | Long Sleeve Cutout Dress | Velvet Jumpsuit | One-Shoulder Dress | Velvet Off-the-Shoulder Dress | One-Shoulder Dress | Off-the-Shoulder Dress | Linen Boyfriend Button Down | Maternity Straight Ankle Jeans | Ribbed T-Shirt Dress | Crewneck Sweater

I hope this post helps you find the perfect outfit for your upcoming fall weddings! Whether you’re attending a black-tie event or something more casual, remember to stay true to your style and feel comfortable. For even more seasonal inspiration, check out my recent blog post on fall fashion trends. I’ll be sharing more outfit ideas and behind-the-scenes moments on Instagram, so stay tuned for more inspiration!